2old just go as dark as possible, I would stop responding to her at all, set a boundary that as long as she is talking about D that you will not respond.
You do not need to tell her this, let your actions speak for themselves.
I agree with Cadet As long as you listen to him!!!!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!