I just proposed that the family rent canoes tomorrow, while son is still here (before returning to college). W was non-committal, citing needing to translate the difficult words of 25 short stories (she teaches English) into Swedish. I offered to help, but she was non-committal on that also.
At least not a full blown no from the beginning - maybe that is something - hmm -
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.