Just wanted to check in on you. A question I'd like to ask, if that's okay? After reading your answer to OT's question, a follow-up question popped into my head. I wanted to know what would you need from her in order to BEGIN trusting her again? I think subconsciously (or not) we all wait for certain signs before we start lowering our guard. For me, I know I waited for more physical affection (myEx's LL) before I started to feel safe again (and I still don't feel 100% safe yet). Perhaps just another question to ponder as you navigate through your feelings and figure out what type of relationship you'd like with your XW.
