He's slowly walking back in your direction....because you're keeping your cards face down and not seeming over anxious. He's definitely got a sense that you don't care either way what happens and I think it's also very telling that he can't bring himself to file for D. That element of doubt is validating all the hard work and patience that you have put towards the past 60 to 90 days. I think you're actually in control of things but don't let your guard down with the wrong assumptions. Your strength right now is the baby and focusing on that making him recognize that the mother of his child has a decision to make about being a responsible and honorable parent.
Now with all due respect to the OW....I would pull no punches with her if she contacts you. Just explain that in no uncertain terms there is one option and one option only for her: Go and Pound Sand versus texting and contacting me with your concerns or worries with the expectation that I am going to take you seriously. End of discussion
Regardless of the leaches....just keep doing what you're doing, it's your time to shine but make it about you and being a great Mom.
Me: 42 WAW: 37 Kids: 0 Separated: 06APR13 M:7 Years, T:10 years WAW states she wants to "move on": 01JUL13 "Courage is the standing army of the soul which keeps it from conquest, pillage, & slavery."
