wife hardends heart-3

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It's selfish when I did not find a better paying job but instead got too comfortable with the current one. Expenses will always go up. I should take up the responsibility to provide more for my family.
It's selfish when I just let W manage our finances and takes no interest in them. She does pay for what I didn't cover. I guess she didn't feel right that she has to pay more at times. I felt that we chewed more than what we could swallow.
W did request that we talk about our finances when we are arguing or mad at each other. Maybe I should just calm down and listen. Maybe she should just pick the right time. I don't know. It's all in the past now.
What irks me the most was when I mentioned something about her little luxuries and she snapped 'it's my money'. She's right and I never questioned her on her spending since that episode.