a part of me would say yes to the move in, only because in my head I think how wonderful it would be for the kids to have their daddy back in their lives. However, obviously that would be a short-term high if H did not want to R. I have also thought that maybe a move in could reignite the wanting to R...which comes first..the chicken or the egg...?

the other part of me also agrees that R before moving back home is a better path for the future of the kids, you and the stability of the M...I am not sure what I would advise. So...like others...sit...sit on it and let the right answer for you and your amazing boys, come to you.


(((((turtle)))))

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home