"I have DB and am reading it and following the suggestions although sometime I struggle because I get no response from H ."
The thing is that you really need patience to go through this. Sometimes it will take a very long time until you get a response. That's when you need to change strategy.
Think of it like working on a new recipe. You try it out, but it doesn't taste right. So you alter things a little here and there until you get the taste (response) that you are looking for.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.