Bad thing to say. All you're doing is concentrating on the D and is making her do nothing else but think about it. Indirectly, YOU are the one that is bringing up the D and not her. You haven't gotten yourself strong enough to think of anything else and are obsessing over it.
If you want to avoid a D, bringing it up all the time isn't going to help.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.