It's not your job to teach her a lesson and most especially not using your children.
How you see it means, did she cross a boundary? If you say to her W if you want to date others, I can't be a part of that. If you want to date, I won't be involved with you romantically but we will still be parents to our children.
Done!
Step out of that persecutor role, it's controlling.
Damn right she crossed a boundary. Dating while working on M is a complete no go for me.
Your right it isn't my job. I lashed out with that. I still don't want to spend time with her though. I hate her right now and I'm angry. After what happened last time I didn't what her telling me I didn't give enough notice to see son.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14