You need to reread Sandi's rules again. I think that you think that you know best and are ignoring Sandi's rules and everyone's advice on here. One of Sandi's rules is don't talk about Divorce or what your WAS wants to do regarding separation or anything associated with the sitch apart from kids and money. No contact means no contact. I know you are beating yourself up with your own 2x4 regarding this, but I've no reponse to the last post you made as I'm just thinking that you keep ignoring everyone's advice on here. I've just posted up a new post on my thread and I'm awaiting 2x4s and hopefully advice about what to do with my current sitch. I'm dying to ring up H or text him or email him but I know that I can't do it as this will break my NC with him. He needs to make the next move, not me! Yes it is stressing me out and yes it is frustrating but it's got to be done! Sorry for the 2x4 btw, I just find it frustrating that everyone including me keeps giving you advice and you keep on ignoring our advice. You keep saying you get it but you are not acting on it. you know your theory, now try putting it into practice
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
