T, I understand you're irked about your W trying to set up a date, but ask yourself this- what is best for your kids? Do you think S3 would rather spend all day with mom AND dad or spend part of it with mom and part with dad? Because that is all that matters, what HE wants and needs. At his age he is not going to understand what is going on between you two, so you need to shelter him from that as long as possible. It's looking like W and I will be D'd soon, but we will likely still get together for the kids' birthdays because that's what they want.
I really think your motivation for this was anger and frustration and that you're trying to teach W a lesson. But all it's doing is making her angry.
It will make her angry. I also think it will also show her some things she needs to see. I think she tend to live a in a dream sometimes.
I'm not saying we won't get together in the future but right now I don't want to be around her. Like I said to GM S3 won't have a clue, he never knew it was happening in the first place and wouldn't even if it was explained to him.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
