Ms. Pam,
I'm sorry that the day seems so down for you. {{{PAM}}}

Let me ask you this...what would you be doing THERE (wherever there is!) that you're not doing HERE to "start your life over again"?

Why NOT do it here so we know where to find you???

Start your life over (??) here, Pam...if distant shores still appeal after a time...well, you'll already have some practice.

How's that list of "babystep actions for Pam to take" coming?

Sage

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.