One giant leap forward! - Part 4

[cbtdad]

T1000,
Sorry you are having to deal with this. It really must feel like a punch in the gut.
I am could be totally wrong and definitely could be mind reading. But I don't think she really had a date. I think your wife is extremely selfish, much like wife, but I also see a lot of controlling issues with your W that reminds me of how I use to do things. I personally believe she was tempature checking and seeing how you would react. Since you have been keeping at arms length she is worried that you might not be "interested" as she says. Here is the problem though. So common sense would tell you show her affection as much as possible and show her you are all in. But then you will end up with more of the same. She will be happy because she feels like she is in control again and it would only be a matter of time before that upsets the both of you.
Now I wish had better advice how to handle all that. I will leave that to Sandi
I wish had Sandi commenting and giving me advice. You are one the threads I follow because of her advice.
Hang in there man, you have come a long ways and don't want to let her have that control again