So w and I exchanged a few business-like texts yesterday about some tax documents that needed to be signed. By early evening our tax lady emailed me what we needed and I forwarded to w who at first couldn't figure out where to sign. W called and text me, but I was unavailable. Then she sent me the following:

Her (8:06 pm): Never mind I'm a (dummy). I figured it out... Just emailed signed docs to you

Me (9:13 pm): Don't be so hard on yourself... I can remember one remember one time that you did something really smart...

Her (9:40 pm): And what was that 1 thing?

Me (7:17 am today): That is something to be discussed over drinks. But there might be a few other instances ...

Now that is a little pursuing, but it is mild compared to what I did to get her to agree to go to Vegas with me (of course she canceled that trip). Anyway, it is just drinks like we did last week and I am just trying to move things forward a little. I am thinking that she may ask if we are on for this weekend (sailing trip that isn't happening) in which case I can suggest something else.. Or she may just ignore me altogether today....


Me-45
W-44
T-7 years
M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated)
Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)