Newcomer here, been reading a lot on the forums--so helpful. Discovered I’ve been DBing/180-ing a lot on my own (after months of doing it all wrong), now need to learn the whole system.
Need urgently to read one of MWD's books to get full grasp of strategies for immediate use. Which is better place to start, DB or DR? Also any recc of espcially good threads in forums for my immediate crisis SITCH?
I especially need support on infidelity/EA/lying. Months of on-off piecing, on-off signals that she's back in M, and on-off-on-off-on EA (now find she has secret cell phone after lots of slow, positive progress on both our parts to experience more happiness togther and as family w/ 9 YO son.
