* Firstly that I have lost a lot of weight and look downbeat. * That I am not listening to other teachers when they talk to me. This is presumably when they say "get over it" or "move on" rather than on a professional level. * They worry that I may cause harm to myself. * They worry when I had 3 alcoholic drinks at dinner last week, when I don't normally drink. * The boss worries about my behaviour if and when the transfer doesn't come in. He doesn't seem positive about the transfer either.
OK, well I think it's a bit nosey (especially the 3 drinks part) but apply your DB'ing and look at this as an opportunity for improvement. It seems the sentiment is more than anything that you're acting depressed. If you're not seeing an IC then you should, because people in mild to moderate depression often don't know they are in it (I have first-hand experience with that). So see an IC and try and discover if maybe you are depressed, and discuss treatment options. Above all else, work on that PMA!!
