There is NO WAY I want H to move back into the house! NO WAY!! I lived with him for 5 months while he carried on his EA right under my nose. It made me sick to witness & I will not be part of that again.
Plus, my boundaries are already stated & I am firm with them... R BEFORE moving back NOT after! H doesn't want to R. At least not now. He needs to grieve his EA, if it doesn't rekindle itself. I will not live with a man who is clearly miserable over his "break-up" with his GF!
Personally I think you're doing the right thing. I've read too many stories of LBS's doing all their hard work and then letting a WAS who has done NO work move back in, only to have them turn right back into a WAS again weeks or months later. The WAS has GOT to work on themselves if a reconciliation is to have any chance at all. And your H has clearly done nothing as of yet.
