I would However, disagree (sorry ) that affairs rarely happen in strong loving marriages , research has shown that they do , but I will admit that there were areas that I needed to work on , and I have been trying to do that .
I should have clarified that I meant when WAS's engage in affairs. I'm sure there are affairs happening in strong marriages, but those stories do not end up on these forums.
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This is maybe a question no-one can answer because every sitch is different , however the OW has already had 2 divorces ! She has 3 teenage children , she doesn't work, her children go to fee paying schools , drives a nice 4x4 , lives in a large house !! I'm wondering if she could be seeing a financial gain from (my ! ) H
OP is almost always a step down, it's one of the mysteries of the choices that WAS's make. If you're asking if she's a golddigger, hard to say but based on that description I'd say it sounds likely.
