Sorry to hear the D is final My W just hired a L to do the D paperwork, so I'm not too far behind you.
Thanks bud, it's okay really she needs to find herself and I want her to have the freedom to do just that. To be honest here I need to find myself as well. I lost sight of who I was and the dreams that I had as well. I think we could have found all that and still be married however she needed this to happen.
I was going to comment on your thread about her hiring a lawyer, I am sorry it had to go this far for you. You'll probably have a few more bad days like when you sign and when it's final. I'm sure you know this. I'm praying God will work in her life and restore a healthy marriage.
Maybe we can meet up and ride in the near future, i don't think your to far away from me.
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.