^^^I came back here today because i was going to right something along these same lines.
OT said it beautifully. I have nothing to add other than your last 2 posts seem very un-Val like. This tells me the situation must be really difficult for you.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
