His dynamic is his dynamic. When we attempt to interpret other people's actions, we often interpret based on our "stuff." How would it help you to know what it is? He probably doesn't know.

He's just doing.

Like yourself, love yourself, do something nice for yourself today.

Let him spin in his own little universe far enough away that it doesn't affect your gravity. You can do that with love.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss