While at work yesterday, we had a few minutes to talk. She made it quite clear she did not intend to come back, that I needed to move on.
Totally typical WAS script. Don't pay any attention to it. Remember Sandi's rule that says not to believe anything they say and only half of what they do.
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She said she liked deciding when to eat and what to watch on TV. (I am not aware that I did anything to prevent her from doing either. There can't possibly be a worse justification for divorce.) When I mentioned that those were things easily addressed, she indicated that she was sometimes afraid of me when I would approach?!
This is how she feels, don't argue with her feelings. Just tell her things like "I bet that was frustrating, I'm sorry you felt that way." There is probably some truth in what she says, so do 180's on those things that have truth in them. But be prepared, you're going to hear some crazy stuff from her.
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After a moment, something unexpected happened. This stern, resolute person I barely recognize started to cry.
Sometimes they drop the mask momentarily and you get a glimpse of the storm inside.
