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How's it going? smile

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Linda: Nowhere near NJ! frown

SpecialK: The ice pick still lays still on the ground. Not moving or twitching a finger at all.

Ruby: Same, ol' same. Waiting to hear from Ms. Wonka. The ball is in her court to reach out to me. Talked with an old college roommate and we're making plans for her to fly out to visit me for a golf outing. Yay!! laugh

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You are a wonder, Wonka! Love you smile

A golf outing sounds like fun. What golf course will you go to? I am a horrid golfer, but it's so fun. Horrible at many sports I dabble in, like skiing and tennis, annoying my H who is good at everything! Too bad, I enjoy it!

I love what you wrote on SpecialK's thread "Sometimes it is good not having to define the R as it messes up your head and heart. When you and P are ready, then you'll know what to do if you elect to 'define' the status of the R." This is pretty good advice for all of us thanks. I guess it's like not trying to define which stage your MLCer is in, especially since things seem to change from minute to minute in MLC Land sometimes.

Glad you are busy GALing while resting your arm smile But you WILL hear from Ms. Wonka, elementary and inevitable my dear Watson!


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Originally Posted By: specialk
[quote] Yes, Wonka! Take a breather from all the hard work (and stress) and recoup. That 9-foot thick glacier will certainly still be there later, so why not take some time to collect your thoughts and weigh out all your options on how to proceed smile


Maybe go for shock and awe with a big ol' wrecking ball?!! shocked Hey, do you know anyone who has a wrecking-ball machine that rents at a DB special rate of 30% off?!

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I wanted to echo RosaLinda's sentiments regarding that piece of advice you gave me on my thread. It was a reminder that I definitely needed to hear!

Hahaha step away from that wrecking-ball machine! Maybe use your ice pick to make some pretty ice sculptures in the meantime LOL


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How goes it doll? wink


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How are you doing Wonka? Any fun GALing going on in that tiki-hut of yours? Just thinking about you, my friend smile


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Hey, SpecialK, awww...come on! Do I hafta walk away from the wrecking-ball machine?? I'd very much like playing with this new toy.

RT, would you believe it or not that I am debating internally on whether to join an online dating service??!! shocked Color me nervous about this one. Maybe you can shove me into that pool for me. Oh and be sure to give me a shot of that smooth amaretto from your limo before you do that shove. wink

My GAL this week has been putting the final touches to my new home, Linda. Been quite hard work with some missteps such as finding mildew in the kitchen that required new cabinets. I'm really liking the new cabinets and will install a few floating shelves to round off the stylish set up.

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New cabinets sound nice, but be sure to address the *cause* of the mildew...


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Stubborn...I'm glad you brought up some concern about the source of the mildew. The cause was a leaky pipe behind the walls so got new plumbing fixtures along with cabinets. So that should resolve the problem for once and all. smile

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