I think F is so organized and black and white that the extra work he is putting in is actually making this more complicated than it is.
You have put a lot off effort into that list. It's a good list but it's not and never will be everything.
Take this for example: W: Why don’t you want to be friends?
Chances are she won't ask this.
She might ask Will we ever be friends? Whats your answer? It's not on your list so you don't have one.
All times I have tried to predict what was going to happen when I interact with W I have been way off. Just know your general position and try to stick to that if possible and use your judgement every time (something I am guilty of not doing). I believe part of my problems right now is I never used my judgement t all I just I stuck to the rules. They are guide lines and the sooner you get that hopefully the simpler this will become.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14