My wife has been having what I call an "emotional affair" with an old friend from high school. She has been calling and texting off and on for at least a couple of months.
I confronted her with the evidence, and she said it is a friend and nothing more. She said she met him alone one time for coffee, and that's the only time they've been alone together. I know she has been meeting up with people from her high school, both men and women, so I think that's legitimate.
However, I'm hard-pressed to think you can have calls at least every other day and many many texts without there being "something" there, especially since she refuses any counsel with very dear close friends. To the point of literally ignoring our one friend who just had a baby.
I dunno - trying to believe her word, believe in the morals I know she holds, while reconciling something like this in my head.