Do I talk to the W and work out some things to make her view differently. Do I stop talking/doing things with staff members so that nothing bad gets said?
Do not try to verbally convince your W. Your actions need to do the talking instead. Step back and look from their point of view at some of your behaviors ( of course you have not done everything wrong, but the negatives are going to be what people remember most unfortunately). If you rarely drink, why did you choose to have 3 that particular night?
Again with your staff, I would also let actions speak. The coversation was between you and the princapal and what was said should remain there. Step back and see if any of their concerns were valid, if so make whatever new changes you need to make, of couese that is only if you want to. Dont stop speaking to them as they will probably think of that negatively/as if somethig is wrong, just make sure your conversations and interactions with them are positive.
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
