I'm proud of you. You stood strong, wouldn't let yourself be doormat AND your focus is where it should be.....on your boys.
A little distance now would work well. Give him his space with fantasy, make believe girlfriend!
Head high!
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13