better to love or be loved?

[willbwell]

25, underdog, BA and Linda,I will read and reread posts again when I can spend more time. Busy couple of days as we all have. Class starts Monday and I already have 6 chapters to read. usually like to get up about 4 central time to read.
H and I suppose to have lunch together tomorrow to discuss finances I suppose. May cancel, I don't know. perhaps he will view it as avoiding. If we do meet, I will plan to only talk business. no R talk, try and listen and validate. I will say nothing about ow. I will be pleasant, not cry and be conscious of not making smart remarks.
wish me luck...