I suppose I don't need to focus on putting a label on our status right now, but the longer this goes on, the more I feel like I would like to know for my own well-being. I guess that's where my own personal boundary comes in with how long we are able to go on how we are, without knowing.
Here's the thing with that "wanting to know the outcome" thing, cp. H doesn't know himself so how can you! So, you have to find a way to be content with the reality of where you guys are right now. Make any changes you can to get there. And remember to continue to stay away from those relationship talks/temperature checks!
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Another thing is that things seem to be improving between us. For months H was distant and cold and now he is opening up to me. Baby steps I guess! It is so much easier now with H acting nicer to me around the house. I thought I was going to go crazy before!
What's his eye contact with you like? For us, W's eye contact (or lack of it) pretty much tells me where she's at.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
