Maybe about to get served with D papers...180 advi

[MagicJack]

Thanks for the responses. I am trying to center my power in myself and forget about her and the situation. Music helps regulate emotions.

Basically she had a lot of anger toward me prior to me finding out about the EA. When I found out about it she was ashamed and sorry, and I really made her feel bad about it and called her a lot of awful things because I was mad. I even threw out my wedding ring. She cut off contact with OM and tried to do some of what I wanted, but was still mad at me in counseling from before.

Now she is tired of me punishing her and "controlling" her and told me she is thinking of a divorce and wants no contact until Sunday when she will tell me her plans.

I think if she tells me she wants a divorce, I will tell her ok and give it to her. If she tells me she wants time apart to think about things I am ok with that, but I told her I would divorce her if she communicates with OM, who she told me she doesn't like. I also told her we wouldn't be friends if there was divorce, since I think she sees that as a way out. I am going to try to stay happy and work on me and my issues. If she serves me with papers I will definitely call a DB coach.