wife hardends heart-3

[planet]

I asked IF she would return my share of the house and she agreed but in monthly payments. The amount will negate the sum of the alimony I shall pay to W for couple of years. W will call L to revised the joint petition.
Yesterday, she said that i'm selfish since my earlier reason to give away my share of the house was for my kids. She said our children's expenses is high and if I don't contribute since the sum is negated then she will have to bear it alone. She can manage without my help. I told her she was free to think anyway she saw fits. I planned to deposit a small amount into my kids account but I didn't tell her and just kept quiet.
I will bear my responsibility regardless of the outcome of my new business. I will care for my kids and still contribute in whatever ways I can. There is no reason why I would not and I just don't know why she would think otherwise. Have I not given my entire salary each month and leave just 'lunch money' to myself? Have I not proven myself throughout the years? What new things do I have? How it that selfish?
She's guilt tripping me again and I'm not buying this.
I used to give my parents a small monthly allowance but stopped because W says our expenses was high. I'm reluctant but I figured W was probably right. She said after the bomb that she didn't want to give money to my parents. I'm hurt hearing that because the amount was really small. I don't know it that's WAS talk but it felt that she had lead me to feel guilty over not prioritizing her and the kids.