Interesting way of looking at it, LTH. Call BS on myself....huhm. I may have to start thinking of ways like this to refocus my mind. I am not saying that I am open to him coming here, but I do know I will have to get passed this sort of thing eventually. I cringe to think what it will be like for me, if he shows up to some of my daughters school activities, with the way I feel now....geeeeez.
I do know it hurts much more to see it, than it does to simply know it's happening. While it is upsetting to know that wife has moved into a new committed relationship, last week when I saw them in person it hurt MUCH deeper.
Not knowing what our setup is here, you probably imagine I wouldn't see it even if he did come out. I am pretty sure I would see it undoubtedly. I am out on the grounds continuously, covering every inch of this place day in and day out. That is part of the operation.
