Subguy, thanks for your support.

I think it's all fine with the account - there was $0 in it and he just started running it as a debit card, with a float of $500 at a time.
Makes it look as if he has a credit card - his own are maxxed out and he can't get another one with his credit history.

Trying to take care of me and the kids, but knowing he is luxuriating on a yacht while we sit here in the cold of winter without heating in our house makes it hard.

D17 has a bad case of acne and has been prescribed Roaccutane.
I'm worried about the depression aspects and I also don't know how we would pay fort as it seems expensive and long-term.