Ruby, I’ve been following with your thread, but was not posting anything. Needed to reflect on my thoughts. You have lots of good points that resonate with my state of mind right now. The decision to change, the feelings of LBS behavior, the fear you have that you might realize that H is not what you want, etc. I keep being amazed at how you handle your sitch. I don’t think I could do the same in similar situation. I think I’m becoming more selfish in a sense that I don’t want to spend time and effort on somebody who doesn’t want me.
Can’t wait for your updates on SE2.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state