Window of opportunity or just a mirage

[2ndtimearoundCA]

Btw. My concern about an OM is maybe slightly different than others. While I am certain at least one OM has been (or still is) in the picture, I am almost certain that either w or OM or both are not interested in a serious long term relationship. This is to say that if w happens to really want to be with an OM, then he is not that into her (or possibly the other way around). It would be upsetting to me if w may want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with her. All I know is that w is not happy with whatever is going on in her dating life and that she has been dating. If we ever get to piecing things back together, the fact that she has been with others may be difficult for me to deal with then.