It sounds like you both would benefit greatly from a counselor that could help guide you on how to communicate in a mature and calm way...although I know it is very difficult when you are hurt and angry. If the MC you went to let her rant without any direction, that is not going to be helpful. I suggest that you should talk to a DB coach that help you come up with a plan that is most likely to bring her closer and not push her any further away. Whether papers are served or not, there is a way to interact and react to her that can stop this run away train. I would look forward to talking to you further. Take good care.
Karen, Resource Coordinator The Divorce Busting Center 303-444-7004 karen@divorcebusting.com
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