Thank you so much breakdown and KP!!! This is such a delicate situation. I am pretty sure that if I want this to work I am going to have to pursue a little at some point. I will let her know that sailing races aren't happening. Not sure how to word that in a way that she might comeback and suggest something else without me sounding too available. For some things to work, I just have to let the stars align in my favor; things won't be entirely in my control.

Thanks again!!


Me-45
W-44
T-7 years
M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated)
Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)