I love the book Radical Acceptance, in fact I can see it from where I'm sitting right now. I should probably read it again. I was lucky enough to attend a talk by Tara, along with some other DBers, earlier this year.
I think you and I agree more than we disagree.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss