Figuring out the old and new life

[Whiterose]

WOW this resonates. H has little/no self confidence and would look to me to be his everything. He would also search for different hobbies and activities that would interest him but he would always lose interest quickly and with each failed attempt would slip further into depression.

Everyone else always got to do the job of their dreams, travelled, went here or there, did this or that and he never could (when in reality he could just never had the gumption to do it or to stick to it)

I guess this seems to be another piece of the MLC puzzle.