So keep going....get it all down on "paper" Pam...every last thing you can think of...you can cross them off later, refine them, whatever. Write it down. Don't argue with yourself as you're writing. Just write. Kind of like you're brainstorming with yourself.
There's a very good chance that I won't be able to post again today (meeting then school) but I'm thinking of you and can't WAIT 'til tomorrow to see what we can start knocking off that list!
I hope you're ready 'cause you're gonna get a bunch of babystep actions to take!
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.