A thought, when people don't respond the way we think they should or want them to (expectations) it usually brings up some doubts within us. She's mad at me, I did something wrong, She didn't like the joke... All mindreading.

When you know that's happening just stop and ask yourself, "What do I know for a fact?"
1. We've been getting along relatively well.
2. I sent a text I thought was funny.
3. She hasn't responded.
Lather, rinse, repeat and go about your day.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss