Ah, the shock and awe strategy.... MrCAS, Holy crap, I think H is beginning to wonder what he has done, which is good for him, I think.
Bug...my thoughts before would have been "Another GF down, it's good..." Today I am wary and deer like. I have not engaged or advised H when he called today and said he was not going on with this relationship. KNow why? Heard it before.
Not sucked in this time, won't make plans with H, he asked, I was busy. I am not readjusting anything in my life this time and THAT is continuing on the path in a straight line, rather than "shiny...let's look over there"
I had really compartmentalized H, but this intrusion into MY life and MY world was a shock, I think. Still processing.
Oh BTW? I got a taste of LBS behaviour from H last night. Everyone is right, it is NOT attractive....