Personally, I would have to wonder hoe NGF's XBF got your number. I would be concerned ans, IMO, a "Sorry, I was drunk" is not an excuse or a reason to act in that manner.I would have called the police and let them deal with it. That crap is just so wrong on way too many levels.
I might be wrong but it sounds to me like your H is coming out of his fog. Speaking from my own experience, it can be a bit overwhelming. It was scary. For me, I felt like I was in a bunker directing my own war machine... pushing buttons... pulling levers... Then I stopped, went to the door, and slowly opened it to see just what I had done and what was left standing.
“Things turn out best for the people who make the best out of the way things turn out” ― Art Linkletter
