Hi Rose, just catching up your thread. I hadn't realized yoy'd started a new one. So sorry you are going thru all of his heartache over money. I'm glad you found a lawyer who won't let H ruin you and the boys with his fantastic ideas about fairly dividing your assets and expenses. I think that even in amicable divorces, it's important to be business-like over money.
How are your dad and father in law? Maybe I missed it but did you ever get any feedback about S18's dinner with H?
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17