Looks like you were given wrong advice, through no fault of your own. Don't blame yourself and don't beat yourself up about it anymore. I know it's easier said than done especially with us going on about it. If she was a professional then she should have thought about it before telling you to do things like that. She sounds like it's someone you needed at the time and for most of the part it worked smile
I go and see a life coach. It's someone who goes to our church and she's given me free coaching sessions smile She fits in well with my IC because they are singing from the same hymn sheet as it were. Thank goodness I've got an appointment today, I need some positive injection smile


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T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!