Well, I'm definitely getting stressed thinking of coming up with the retainer fee to pay the A. Actually I'm just getting stressed here period, thinking of dealing with all of this, and I like the idea better of just going away.
The one I have been told is really good is $1500.00. I don't have that to pay her, D put his on his credit card, I'm not sure if this one takes a credit card or not.
The one I talked to that I know I like does not take credit cards so if I go with her I have to have the money up front, but she isn't as expensive.
Anyway I don't think it is something you can do and forget. My understanding is once you put it in motion there are meetings and counter proposals and dividing the stuff in the house and deciding what to do with the house.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"