Originally Posted By: stilllookingup
Maybe you were subconsciously trying to get back to her by posting it. Like I said in the beginning, I didn't understand at all why you even decided to post it. It really made me scratch my head.


You probably are right, subconsciously maybe I was trying to get her back. My excuse is simple. I met someone I knew who works trying to improve peoples positive views in life. We chatted for quite some time, and part of the conversation was the tattoo. She suggested it would be good to put it on Facebook, rather than hiding it (as I got the tattoo two weeks earlier). I was on a positive high and I saw it as a good thing. Later I realise (now also) it probably wasn't the best choice to do. But alas, that is life, live and learn.
Even if the family and friends took it as I have had enough with the marriage, these are the same people who for the last 10 months have been telling me it's over and I need to listen to the W.
The W is who I need to focus on, she knows what the statement means,simple as that.


ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.