It seems to me that he made your path clearer! You know exactly what you want and won't allow--good for you. I'm sure that Convo stung, but you're in a better place. Feel it and put it away, dust it off and continue on your path.
Congrats on your new job. And take care of your boys.
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.