Suckerpunch, moving ahead one way or another!

[25yearsmlc]

My family has provided Wife with a roof over her head and all of her utilities paid for. This has been going on for roughly 8 or 9 months.

Please Stop saying this. You have to pay something to your wife. She has nowhere else to go and thankfully, she can stay where she is without you having to pay her much.

Frankly, you said you used to be very material but you have changed...really? B/C you throw this property and monetary statement out EVERY time you mention your wife's presence in your life and YOUR Property, as if she mooched off of you for the past several years.

It's very disrespectful. She's not the only one revising the marriage.

So you wanted to bully or frighten her OM away and it failed...and turns out she has a legal argument. Seems to me she thought things out and raised some good points.

SP did you consider and reflect on ANY of what she said, or did you let your anger read the message for you?


Now, she has the audacity to demand that OM be allowed to come here, even to the point of verifying it with the police?

I saw no "demand". I saw her giving you a "heads up". which she did not have to do, and checking if she had any legal rights, which she does. STOP PUTTING THE WORST SPIN ON HER ACTIONS.
It truly does not serve you well.



It seems like she is forcing this selfish act with no regard to my feelings or my families. Is she out of her mind?

MOre negative projecting onto her and mind reading...counter productive

I am really contemplating moving her belongings off of our property and out of the apartment while she is gone. She will be away for 5 days on vacation with daughter and OM. She spends 95% of her time at his house, sleeping there almost every single night, and definitely spending the majority of her time with him. Perhaps it's time to completely set her free and move this thing forward....thoughts?

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