I’m at the point now where I’ll do what it takes to get W moving and on her way, her late night comings and goings are really getting to me. I mean I know we are not together but when she goes out I don’t sleep and my mind tries to work out all of the different scenario’s of what she may be doing or who she may be with. If she’s out of here it’s not my worry.
D 12 is also getting upset, she angry that W is out all the time and doesn’t spend time with her, she also told me she heard W on the phone talking to a possible OM#2, she still coming to terms that W is with an OM (but I take OM#2 with a pinch of salt). When I was putting D12 to bed when W went on here latest late night visit to “The Cinema” D12 said “Dad just give her want she wants and let her go”.
That for me is a very powerful push to get things going.
So yes my life starts again when W moves on, all I have to do is make it happen.